Stream it now When Harry Met Sally... 1989

 

The great dialogues, strong acting and great script just make this a very good romantic comedy.

it's like the dessert after dinner

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This romantic comedy is spot-on. It flows perfectly, the characters nail their roles like a hammer, and in addition it demonstrates how a woman can fake an orgasm. The chemistry between Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan is what turns what should have been an average flick into an admirable, modern classic.

I liked this movie. do you want to know why? because it was a Rom Com NOT DIRECTED JUST AT WOMEN!!! it had something in there for both sexes. plus it was waaaaay more realistic than your average chick flick. The average chick flick shows men as these objects who will love you unconditionally once you actually marry them. they treat men like dogs. and thewomen lives happily ever after with her dog husband who will do whatever the woman wants. Harry is not like that. he still retains his personality once he marries Sally. much more realistic. plus, they also have much more realistic problems in their relationships and they get together in a much more realistic way. none of this "meet at the top of the empire state building and immediately fall in love to go get married at the end of the movie with no problems in their relationship" crap. so basically I like this movie because it has something for both sexes and it is a lot more realistic than the average chick flick. plus I love the line "I'll have what she's having" and the situation that is behind it. a great movie.

I first saw When Harry Met Sally a few years ago. I liked it. I did not love it. It was one of the occasions where I have to unfortunately admit that I just didn't get it. The second time I saw the film, I understood it more. More recently, a few months ago, feeling solemn and down I watched the film, and it lifted my spirits up so high, that I felt like I'd seen it for the first time. So when I watched this film again for what must have been the forth or fifth time, it proved to have not lost its charm.

The film starts with and is interspersed with elderly couples discussing how they met, which naturally foreshadows the most probably future for our main characters. The story begins in 1977 where Harry and Sally share a interstate road trip from Chicago University to New York City. They had not met before this time, and only knew each other through Harry's girlfriend whom is also Sally's friend. The car trip does not go well, and by the time they reach New York, they cannot wait to get away from each other. Another 5 years later, they meet again on a flight, and once again have a butting of heads meeting, but of less headstrong based naivety. And then finally, another 5 years later, they meet again and become best friends after both of their long term relationships fall apart, which naturally progresses to something more.

What is quite the successful achievement via the actors is the character development from the Chicago University in 1977, to the current 1988/9 time setting that the majority of the film takes place in. And this is where we acknowledge our leading actors.

Meg Ryan is irresistible. Her neuroses are so wonderfully put against such an innocent pretty appearance that figuratively shouldn't have anything at all to worry about, which just adds delightful humour to her character and her performance. And it is the chemistry between Ryan and Crystal is charming and adorable.

Billy Crystal plays both the familiar comedic role that we are familiar with in his roles previous and following this film, and the much more down to earth, heartbroken and sensitive male. And yet somehow, through this melancholic display, his vulnerability, particularly after his divorce, is very charming.

We can see When Harry Met Sally being a slightly updated Annie Hall, (especially if you look at the first image, where we see Ryan looking a lot like Keaton in the costuming) but very different and one that concludes in a more standard classical Hollywood ending. It has a linear storyline, and the couple do not break-up in the end. Despite this seemingly formulaic film, there is the genius of Nora Ephron (who I adore!) behind it's writing, who credits Ryan, Crystal and also director Rob Reiner for some of the idiosyncrasies of the film. Ryan is credited for coming up with the orgasm scene, which naturally, cannot go without notice, as it unfortunately sticks as the most memorable scene in the film. Also, with one of the most memorable lines in any film: "I'll have what she's having", being said by Reiner's mother. I say unfortunately as I see this film as the whole package; the ultimate rom-com as it's got something for both the guys and the gals.

The film dissects the idea that popular culture tells us that "Men are from Mars, and women are from Venus." According to Harry, men and women cannot be friends without the sex getting in the way. In these conversations that continue to flow throughout the film, we see a predated Sex and the City lunch sex conversation. Our famous orgasm scene predates a storyline from Sex and the City by about 10 years in being just as on the mark with frank sexual discussion in the mainstream.

Rob Reiner and his genius in the small details is seen where Harry is describing to his writer friend of when his wife left, and after each blow, the stand up and do the Mexican wave, adding comic relief to a very sad story. The phone call conversation between Harry and Jess and Marie and Sally skilfully shows off Reiner's comic timing and the scene is simply hilarious. Also very noteworthy is the New Year's Eve party when both Harry and Sally discover that they have an attraction is just heartbreakingly cute, as it is tragic, mainly, because it ends in just a peck on the mouth.

But among all of the funny scenes, the one that sticks out with me the most is just after Harry and Sally have had sex for the first time. The different facial expressions on Harry and Sally is simply amazing. She is content and happy and his face reads "What have I done?" and also brings the audience back to the conversation that occurred in the first part of the film where they drive from Chicago to New York, where Harry tells Sally that he wonders how long he has to hold the girl before he can leave. From here, we know that part of their relationship is, if not doomed, then at least troubled.

If I can pass on any advice, do yourself a favour and this Valentine's Day, do not go and see Valentine's Day in the cinema, but go rent or buy When Harry Met Sally.

Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan have some of the best on screen chemistry I have ever seen between any actor and actress. They play off each other magnifiscently, but they are aided by a great director and a flawless screenplay.
What really pushes this movie forward is the fact that the characters exhibit traits I think everyone finds in their friends and themselves.
The storyline plays through beautifully. Nothing is cheesy--as I expected it to be--nor is it underplayed. I think part of it can be contributed to luck, but it's hard to imagine a less-talented director working with actors with less chemistry pulling off some of the moments of the film.
It's considered a romantic comedy, but a majority of the picture is focused more of as a buddy-film than a romantic comedy. And I loved this. It made it seem more genuine and real; nothing seemed fabricated. I love it when a film just seems to work simply by telling the story.
That's what's important about what the filmmakers did here. They weren't trying to make a cinema classic. They were just telling the story of what happened when Harry met Sally.
Wonderful, passionate, intelligent, this is one of the best romance movies of all time.
10/10

The Empire Strikes Back of chick flicks.

calls to mind Annie Hall, this fabulous film has a witty and frank screenplay by Nora Ephron who writes an unusually effective romantic tale. Rob Reiner must be commended for directing that tale with equal amounts of sweetness and pain. Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal... they don't make quite a good couple but they were still able to give stunning, comically honest turns. classic

This is a genuinely funny and enjoyable film. Its one of the best romantic comedies I've seen; ok its a little predictable and you know what's coming, but its charming, sharp and you can't help but love it. The love/hate chemistry between Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal is great. This film is really funny, with likeable characters and a good story. Its not too cheesy and it steers clear of the typical romantic comedy formula. A great film.

Grade: A